2008年11月20日星期四

improve your life---positive mential attitude

Another New Year is upon us. You’ve probably got lots of grand plans for change. We all know that every year we start out with good intentions and within a few weeks the drive and motivation diminishes. If you are ready to make a lasting change that positively impacts your life, get the ball rolling with a well thought out plan for change. The first thing I recommend is look at what you want in your life right now. The second is to pick one habit that you could change or create within the next 21 days. Experts say that it takes a minimum of 21 days to change a behavior. Are you ready to make a commitment to change? Now, let’s get started creating a successful plan to create one new habit in 21 days:
• Imagine what your life would look like with this new habit. What would you have then that you don’t have now? Visualize what you want for yourself so that you can create it right now. Your ongoing, passionate connection to a clear vision will help you stay motivated to take steps everyday to create what you want.
• Write down the benefits of creating this new habit and your willingness to make the necessary changes. Be honest. What was your motivation for the change? What was your attitude at the time? Your level of readiness to change will determine how successful you are, and how much time it will take. But you need to be ready, able and willing to make change happen in 21 days.
• Identify goals that will support your new habit. Write them down on a calendar or daily planner. Jot down all the tasks and activities (steps) that will support your goals over the next 21 days. Be specific. Use action verbs. Let your goals have measurable outcomes. Specify completion dates. Also record what your reward will be for achieving the goal and read it every morning and night. This will help you to be more committed to creating a new habit as each day passes.
• Eliminate roadblocks that could impede your success. There are always roadblocks to overcome as we move towards creating new habits. Select one roadblock to work on at a time. For every negative message you encounter, turn it into a positive one. For example, “I‘m going to fail” can turn into “I have everything that I need to succeed”. It takes practice daily to be successful.
• Build a support network and enlist family, friends and like-minded people who can help move you towards the first steps to what you want to achieve. Establish a discussion group and meet in person, on the phone or online with individuals where you can share common concerns and feelings.
• If your life is already too full and you don’t have time to add anything else, which is the case for most people, take a closer look at how you spend your time on an average day. Record your daily activity. Free up some time you might not have known existed and incorporate your goals into your daily life.
• Write down a few paragraphs describing what you’ve accomplished, and how your life is better as a result, challenge yourself. Strive to create even more new habits. Make simple changes first and then take a look at the things that are harder and that require the most change to achieve your desired results. Tackle them one at a time. Make lasting changes to your lifestyle and reward yourself each step of the way.
Start right now! Over the next 21 days: make a commitment to yourself to identify one new habit that you can create successfully—and start doing it! Explore ways to integrate your goals for your new habit with your current obligations and take those first steps into the New Year with renewed desire and commitment.
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2008年9月30日星期二

Wordsworth's Poetry---"I wandered lonely as a cloud"

Summary

The speaker says that, wandering like a cloud floating above hills and valleys, he encountered a field of daffodils beside a lake. The dancing, fluttering flowers stretched endlessly along the shore, and though the waves of the lake danced beside the flowers, the daffodils outdid the water in glee. The speaker says that a poet could not help but be happy in such a joyful company of flowers. He says that he stared and stared, but did not realize what wealth the scene would bring him. For now, whenever he feels "vacant" or "pensive," the memory flashes upon "that inward eye / That is the bliss of solitude," and his heart fills with pleasure, "and dances with the daffodils."

Form



The four six-line stanzas of this poem follow a quatrain-couplet rhyme scheme: ABABCC. Each line is metered in iambic tetrameter.

Commentary

This simple poem, one of the loveliest and most famous in the Wordsworth canon, revisits the familiar subjects of nature and memory, this time with a particularly (simple) spare, musical eloquence. The plot is extremely simple, depicting the poet's wandering and his discovery of a field of daffodils by a lake, the memory of which pleases him and comforts him when he is lonely, bored, or restless. The characterization of the sudden occurrence of a memory--the daffodils "flash upon the inward eye / Which is the bliss of solitude"--is psychologically acute, but the poem's main brilliance lies in the reverse personification of its early stanzas. The speaker is metaphorically compared to a natural object, a cloud--"I wandered lonely as a cloud / That floats on high...", and the daffodils are continually personified as human beings, dancing and "tossing their heads" in "a crowd, a host." This technique implies an inherent unity between man and nature, making it one of Wordsworth's most basic and effective methods for instilling in the reader the feeling the poet so often describes himself as experiencing.

2008年9月24日星期三

learning goal

A. Learning Goal(学习目标)The teacher will help you to talk about this topic from the perspectives of:1、What do you think you should do at work?你认为在你工作中必须要做什么?2、What do you think you shouldn't do at work?你认为你在你工作中不能做什么?3、What makes you a superior employee?是什么使你成为了出色的员工?B、Materials for Reference1、Things you should do at work1) Being an important part of making the team or workplace succeed at what it does;2) Keep learning, using academic education, self-study, and projects that stretch you
and give you accomplishment;3) Refuse to do illegal activities;4) Create ways for things to operate better;5) Create an atmosphere of caring;6) Being a person of genuine integrity.2、Things you should never do at work1) StealingWhether you think that the company "owes" you things like Post-its, pens and other
office supplies, or you simply don't think it's a big deal, you should be sure about
that in case your boss or co-worker catches you. Stealing can not only get you fired,
it's illegal.2) Blaming someone else for your mistake sure, having to admit you made a mistake is embarrassing, but not nearly as
embarrassing as it would be to have to admit you lied about it or tried to cover it
up.3) Spreading gossipWho knows why people get a certain high from hearing juicy gossip. Many of us are
guilty of passing along at least a few rumors at times, but the more you can avoid
doing so, the better off you will be. Try to avoid it. In addition, if you hear it,
don't repeat it.4) Calling in sick when you are perfectly healthy If you wake up and just cannot face the idea of going in to work, there's no reason
(unless this happens every day) you shouldn't give yourself a vacation, personal or
mental health day. Nevertheless, calling in sick is not only irresponsible and
insensitive to the co-workers who have to cover for you; it could also be grounds for
firing if you're caught.5) Abusing office technologyThis includes: spending a significant amount of time on personal phone calls, e-mails
or instant messages; using office time to type and print out the pieces of your
screenplay; going online to catch up on last night's episode of "My life on the D
list"; and using the office printer to make the invites to your holiday party.6) Involving co-workers in your personal problemsIf problems at home are distracting you from doing your job, that's one thing, which
you should take up with the boss or human resources. But involving your co-workers in
your personal problems is distracting and unprofessional.

Is it better to enjoy your money when you earn it or to save your money for some time
in the future?赚钱之后是要花掉还是存起?
A、Teaching Goal(教学目标)The teacher will help you to talk about this topic from the perspectives of:
1、How to compare two kinds of opinions and elaborate on one of them?如何对两种观点进行比较并重点阐述其中一种?2、How to use different arguments to support your point of view?如何用不同的论据来支撑你的论点?
B、Materials for Reference1、Vocabularyin favor of 赞成wisely 明智地investment 投资precious 宝贵的measure 衡量in pursuit of 追求expenditure 支出,花费incidental expenses 额外开支2、Reading material Personally speaking, i'm more in favor of spending money that only saving. But the
point is we should spend money wisely. When I was a high school student, it seemed
that I had the habit of spending after I had some extra money. I don't think that is
a kind of waste, however, I think it should be called investment and enjoyment. For
example, I've already had listened to my MP3 on my way to school when others still
carried their walkman; I could check up new vocabulary by using my electronic
dictionary quickly when others took their clumsy dictionaries to class. Although I've
spent more money than others, the convenience and the joyfulness it brings to me
can't be measured by money at all. Over the years, I've possessed a lot of things
that others are still in pursuit of. In my opinion, we need to creat happiness and
relaxation for ourselves in our stressful life.

2008年9月23日星期二

i miss you


Things my momma never taught me

There were lots of things that my momma taught me, first, that handicapped really meant handicapable because she believed you were limited by your mind not your physical disabilities. If you think you can't do something, then you can't. She was paralyzed down her right side, She had to drag her right leg and her right arm was permanently fixed in bent position at her waist. She learned to do everything left handed and as she said to start a little earlier so she got where she was going on time :). She also taught me things like how to make my bed, how to cook, how to clean, how to walk, sit and talk like a young lady lol. (well, she tried). How to love with all you have regardless of the consequences. How to pick up the pieces of your broken heart, super glue them back together and go on and to love the Lord my God with all my heart. Those are some of the many things she taught me.She didn't teach me to hate, hold prejudice or judge others She wasn't perfect and I'm not saying she had an easy life because she didn't but she believed holding hatred in your heart, pride and prejudice and judging others only brought you down. She said there wasn't enough time on earth as it was without wasting it on things of no value.She didnt teach me to run around patting myself on the back and telling everyone all the good things I did, she always said God knew what I had done and He knew my heart it didn't matter what ppl saw.She didn't teach me to withhold my love out of anger or fear because I couldn't go through life being afraid of loving and I couldn't go through life holding on to the only thing I had that I could give freely which is my love. She said if you never give it away HOW can you expect to get it back.She didn't teach me how to spoil a child, she taught me how to love a child, with a firm hand and a loving heart. She never taught me my children would turn out just like me!!! I think she just kept that a secret maybe her own little private joke from all the heck I gave her growing up lol.And all those times growing up when I said, I hope I never act like you when I grow up, she would just smile and she never taught me....that I wouldand I pray I have.Tribute to my mom, Flossie Isaac Workman Teague 4/02/21 - 2/22/78 the most handi-capable person I've ever known.
from the http://ww1.yuwie.com/blog/entry.asp?id=723498&eid=481267&t=Things%20my%20momma%20never%20taught%20me

2008年9月20日星期六

powerful direct marketing script

Hi is __ there?
Hey___,this is MY NAME calling you back. I noticed you visited my website and I understand you're looking for a way to generate some extra income from home,is that right?
Great___,How long have you been looking for something? (LISTEN)Oh, really.(This is more an inquisitive "tell me more" statement than it is and "ok noted"statement)Did something change in your life (THIS LONG) ago that made you want to start looking for a way to bring in some extra income?(THIS IS THEIR "WHY"-LET THEM TALK!-The more they talk, the more repport you build. DO NOT INTERRUPT THEM,other than to ask questions of interest to get them to talk more, like "really? Tell me more about that...")Wow. Sounds like you definitely need something. Let me ask you this, how much additional income do you need to earn per month to allow you to accomplish(REASON THEY JUST TOLD YOU THEY ARE LOOKING FOR SOMETHING)?Ok, so if we could help you make(approximately 25% more than what they said) in the next 6 months or so on a part time basis, would that be something you'd want to take a serious look at?Great, do you have 15 minutes RIGHT NOW, to learn how to make___(that amount of money)?Great, write this downAgain my name is (MY NAME), and my number is (MY NUMBER).I want you to...
(This is where you send them to a conference call, either live or recorded, or direct them to your website.)As soon as you've done that,call me back and we'll see if it's a fit for you.OR, you could say: Great, do that now and I'll call you back in 15 minutes and we'll see if it's a fit for you.(this way gives them more urgency).AFTER THEY'VE DONE THAT:____,Pretty exciting,huh?What'd you like best about what you heard? (RELATE TO THEM."Yeah, that's one of the main reasons I got started.")What else did you like? (LISTEN AND RELATE)Great,well___,sounds like you see the power of this system. How soon do you want to start making money?SIGN THEM UP!IF THEY START ASKING QUESTIONS, SAY:That's a great question. Let me introduce you to the person who introduced me to this business. I want you to see the team you'll get to work with and also answer that question, hold on 1 sec.(Do NOT ask them if it would be ok,just tell them to hold on one second and 3 way in your upline.)Once your upline gets on the phone.Say,(UPLINES NAME),I want to introduce you to(PROSPECTS NAME).(PROSPECT),(UPLINE) has been in the business for quite a while now and is having a LOT of success.He's helping a LOT of people make money. And (UPINE),(PROSPECT) is a VERY sharp person and had a great question that I know you'll be able to explain very simply, so I'll let you take it...Then BE QUIET. LET YOUR UPLINE WORK. DO NOT INTERRUPT ANDDO NOT SYA ANYTHING. JUST TAKE NOTES because you are going to be doing this for your team so it is very important you pay close attention and learn as you earn.

2008年9月18日星期四

Great Places To advertise Your Zen Zuu Referral Link

Hello, lets build Zen Zuu together. If you are looking for great places to advertise, you are welcome to check out the link below, and also you can go to my website at www.paydayishere.net and look under the advertising tab for many more sites to put your referral link on. In today’s internet businesses. These advertising places will work great for any program that you are working.
I have found that it is best to have no less than 5 different, good and effective advertising places that you are advertising at. The more places you are advertising at the better response you will have.
I have put a website together to help anyone that is in Zen Zuu, you are welcome to use it if you like, and you can send it to your downline also so they can get information from it. Just don't have anyone sign up through this site, because it is attached to my personal URL. My website list all the conference call number, has a FAQ section on it, has several different email templates that you and your downline can use, has a massive list of advertising places and has 2 videos attached to it. So it is a great tool to use when trying to explain Zen Zuu to someone.
I wish you the best of luck in building your Zen Zuu team. You are welcome to listen in on our Zen Zuu training calls, they are every Sunday at 5:00 to 7:00 pm Eastern Time. For other conference calls and the number to dial for the training call, look under the conference call tab on my website. Don’t forget to log in and out of your account 30 times each and every month, you have to do this in order to get paid.
One of the best sources of advertising I found is the Target Pro Blaster, you are able to send out 37 MILLION + emails to opt in email addresses every day. If you don’t know what opt in emails are, they are people that are looking for business opportunities. Target Pro Blaster will allow you to send to these people once every day. For only $ 10.00, you get a life time membership to Target Pro Blaster, you also get a resellers link, which means you can sell this program yourself over and over and make $ 10.00 every time you sell it. So you can make that a business by itself. It is very easy to set up, the Target Pro Blaster software keeps track of the emails that you send, so you never have to worry about updating them, and new fresh emails are added everyday. You are welcome to call me and I will help you get everything set up, if you are not familiar with these types of programs, don’t worry I will be right here to guide you along the way. This will be truly the best $ 10.00 that you will ever spend. You can use this program for every program that you are working. You can just alternate your emails that you are sending out.For a direct link to the Target pro blaster just copy and paste this URL into your browserwww.webautotraffic.com/vib/index.php?e=valuegreen@yahoo.comRoger BiceDresden, OhioEmail valuegreen@yahoo.comYahoo messenger valuegreenMy cell 1-740-252-8810 please call after 4:00 PM eastern timeTeam PaydayishereList of Advertising site http://www.rogerbice.infoMy Personal website: http://www.paydayishere.net

2008年9月16日星期二

Be Happy

Red is for love 红色是情爱
Let you love shine 让她放光彩。
Orange is for hope 橙色是希望
Dream you dream 放飞心中的梦想
Yellow is for happiness 黄色是幸福
Create it in you soul 产生在灵魂的深处
Green is for trust 绿色是信任
Trust yourself 相信自己的忠贞
Blue is for truth 蓝色是真理
Live you inner truth 发自你的心底
Indigo is for freedom 靛蓝是自由
Take responsibility for yourself 请用责任去守侯
Violet is for respect 紫色是尊敬
Toward everybody you meet. 面对芸芸众生
And so you create your own circle of colors to see a Rianbow 创造自己的缤纷彩虹
Hear and feel the sounds of each color 感受属于你的多彩人生
Write your own symphony 书写自己的生命的乐章
And share it with the World 同世上的人们共同分享

英汉对照:29句最常用谚语

1. A bosom friend afar brings a distant land near. 海内存知己,天涯若比邻。
2. A common danger causes common action. 同舟共济。
3. A contented mind is a continual / perpetual feast. 知足常乐。
4. A fall into the pit, a gain in your wit. 吃一堑,长一智。
5. A guest should suit the convenience of the host. 客随主便。
6. A letter from home is a priceless treasure. 家书抵万金。
7. All rivers run into the sea. 殊途同归。
8. All time is no time when it is past. 机不可失,时不再来。
9. An apple a day keeps the doctor away. 一日一个苹果,身体健康不求医。
10. As heroes think, so thought Bruce. 英雄所见略同。
11. A young idler, an old beggar. 少壮不努力,老大徒伤悲。
12. Behind the mountains there are people to be found. 天外有天,山外有山。
13. Bad luck often brings good luck. 塞翁失马,安知非福。
14. Bread is the stall of life. 面包是生命的支柱。(民以食为天。)
15. Business is business. 公事公办。
16. Clumsy birds have to start flying early. 笨鸟先飞。
17. Courtesy costs nothing. 礼多人不怪。
18. Custom makes all things easy. 习惯成自然。
19. Desire has no rest. 人的欲望无止境。
20. Difficult the first time, easy the second. 一回生,二回熟。
21. Do not change horses in mid-stream. 别在河流中间换马。
22. Do not have too many irons in the fire. 贪多嚼不烂。
23. Do not pull all your eggs in one basket. 别把所有的蛋都放在一个篮子里。(不要孤注一掷。)
24. Do not teach fish to swim. 不要班门弄斧。
25. East or west, home is the best. 东奔西跑,还是家里好。
26. Experience is the best teacher. 实践出真知。
27. Fact is stranger than fiction. 事实比虚构更离奇。(大千世界,无奇不有。)
28. Faith can move mountains. 信念能移山。(精诚所至,金石为开。)
29. First impressions are half the battle. 先入为主。

Relish the Moment-品味现在

Much meaning can be conveyed, clearly, with our eyes, so it is often said that eyes can speak.
Do you have such kind of experience? In a bus you may look at stranger, but not too long. And if he is sensing that he is being stared at, he may feel uncomfortable.

The same in daily life. If you are looked at for more than necessary, you will look at yourself up and down, to see if there is anything wrong with you. If nothing goes wrong, you will feel angry toward other’s stare with you that way. Eyes do speak, right?
Looking too long at someone may seem to be rude and aggressive. But things are different when it comes to stare at the opposite sex. If a man glances at a woman for more than 10 seconds and refuses to avert his gaze, his intentions are obvious, that is, he wishes to attract her attention, to make her understand that he is admiring her.

However, the normal eye contact for two people engaged in conversation is that the speaker will only look at the listener from time to time, in order to make sure that the listener does pay attention to what the former is speaking, to tell him that he is attentive.
If a speaker looks at you continuously when speaking, as if he tries to dominate you, you will feel disconcerted. A poor liar usually exposes himself by looking too long at the victim, since he believes in the false idea that to look straight in the eye is a sign of honest communication. Quite the contrary.
In fact, continuous eye contact is confined to lovers only, who will enjoy looking at each other tenderly for a long time, to show affection that words cannot express.
Evidently, eye contact should be done according to the relationship between two people and the specific situation.

我们的眼睛能准确地传达一些信息,所以人们常说,眼睛会说话。
你有过类似的体验吗?在公共汽车上,你可能会看着一个陌生人,但时间不会太长。而且,如果他能感觉到有人盯着他,会觉得浑身不自在。
日常生活中亦如此。如果别人一直盯着你看,你就会不由自主地审视自己,看看是不是有什么地方弄错了。如果一切正常,你就会对别人的这种盯梢很气愤。眼睛确实能说话,不是吗?
过久的盯着别人看会给人一种粗鲁和侵犯的感觉。但异性之间的凝视就不同了。如果一个男人盯着一个女人超过10秒钟,还不想挪开视线的话,他的意思就十分明显了,他想引起她的注意,想让她知道他爱慕她。
正常情况下,两人交谈时,目光接触能传达这样的意思:说者偶尔看看听者,以此确认听着是否在认真倾听。而对于听者来说,他会一直看着说话的人,以此告诉他,自己正专心致志的听着。
假如与你说话的那个人直直的盯着你,好像要镇住你似的,你便会感到惶恐不安。一般地,说谎者往往就是看别人的时间过长,而令人起疑。因为他们以为直视别人的眼睛是诚实沟通的表现,结果恰恰相反。
实际上,长时间的相互凝视仅适合情人之间,他们喜欢温柔的对视,用目光来传达言语无法表达的爱意。
显然,目光交流应该根据双方的关系和特定场合来进行。

2008年9月7日星期日

new to zenzuu

God has answered my prayers by letting me find ZenZuu.com and I am very grateful to be part of this dynamic family of enterpreneurs and other great group of people who believe in networking through out the internet. Every day that I get to listen to the conference calls is a great feeling that makes me full of hope for a better life. And I know for sure that I will reach my goals for financial freedom for my family. Friends who are in my upline and downlines,are like family to me. Becose they share my thoughts and feelings. It is great to know that I am in the right place at the right time. ++++++++++++++++ John 3:16 " For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life."
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If you're like me, you'll have your first two recruits in your first 15 or 20 minutes.

2008年9月5日星期五

勇于梦想dare to dream

写励志方面的书籍来激励读者。即使你正身陷于悠长黑暗的人生隧道里,人生总有希望存在!告诉每一个人你们是多么得珍贵,在整个世界里,你是独一无二的那一个!告诉你,有一粒神奇伟大的种子潜藏在你身上。你有如此多的礼物和天赋,致使你能履行你的梦想。1.你知道你身上有伟大的种子基因吗?(或者说,你了解你自己吗?)2.你知道你有身上有许多未开发的天赋吗?3.你知道什么是吸引力法则吗?4.你想成为每个人都想要遇到的最积极有魅力的那个人吗?或者你只想跟绝大多数人一样做个任人支配的羔羊呢?一个叫科林的人曾经对我说,彼得,你不是为做个普通人而降生到这个世界来的,这不适合你。自从这些话语对我讲过后,我的生活得到前所未有的改变。因为我现在拥有无穷的梦想和希冀。对于你,我亲爱的读者朋友,我也要对你说同样的话语。你不是生来就注定是平庸之辈的,这并不是已经为你安排好了的命运。那么,我想问你:1)你认为这是否可能呢---世界需要你成为那些生活在黑暗之中人们的一缕光明?2)你认为你能做出一个改变你自己观念的决定吗?3)你想成为一个世界的改变者吗?4)你想为我们这个社会变得更好贡献一份自己的力量或留下自己的一个积极的印记吗?5)你想让你的人际关系获得极大提升吗?6)你想走出你的一叶扁舟,离开你暂时舒适的小窝走向世界大舞台吗?
Writing inspirational, motivational books to inspire the reader that there is always hope at the end of the long dark tunnel. Telling everybody that they are uniquely special and there is only one of them in the whole world. Telling you that you have an amazing seed of greatness inside of you. You have so many gifts and talents in side of you that you can fulfill all of your dreams.1.Do you know you have a seed of greatness in you?2.Do you know you have so many untapped talents inside of you?3.Do you know what the law of attraction is?4.Do you know what it is like to be a magnet to other people?5.Do you want to become the most positive person that everyone would like to meet? Or do you want to be a sheep and follow like most of the world does?A man called Colin once said to me, Peter, you were not made for the ordinary and don’t settle for it. Since those powerful words were spoken over me, my life was never going to be same again because now I have extraordinary dreams and visions.And to you---my dear reader I say the same to you.You were not made for the ordinary and don’t settle for it.1)Do you think it could be possible that the world may need you to be a beaming light in the darkness they are living in?2)Do you think you could make a decision to renew your mind?3)Do you want to be a world changer?4)Do you want to leave a positive mark on society for the better?5)Do you want your relationships with people to improve enormously?